Untangling
‘We’ to Find ‘Me’
Because losing yourself in someone else isn’t love—it’s enmeshment
Our Mission
At Un-Enmesh, we help people rediscover who they are beneath the roles, responsibilities, and emotional expectations placed on them.
Whether you’re struggling in a romantic relationship, within your family dynamic, or at work, we support you in reclaiming your emotional independence and identity.
Our approach isn’t about blame—it’s about liberation. With honesty, care, and lived wisdom, we help you reconnect with yourself.
Why We Exist
You’re not broken. You’re not dramatic. And you're not alone.
Enmeshment occurs when your emotional boundaries become blurred, and someone else’s feelings seem more important than your own. Over time, you lose sight of where you end and they begin.
Un-Enmesh exists to help you recognize this pattern—and untangle from it with clarity, confidence, and care.
What We Believe
Awareness sets you free
Boundaries protect connection
Healing thrives with support
Your worth is not negotiable
Real Stories, Real Impact
"This work isn’t just about leaving toxic patterns—it’s about coming home to yourself. I didn’t expect to feel this powerful again."
"I thought I had to keep everyone else happy to feel safe. Un-Enmesh showed me a better way—and for the first time in years, I trust myself."
Who We Are
Un-Enmesh is a collective of coaches, writers, and real people who have lived through the chaos of enmeshment—and found the way out.
Our founder, writing under the pen name Raine Everly, created this space after years of personal work. What started as one woman’s story is now a team effort—a shared mission to help others untangle with compassion, truth, and unwavering presence.
Our Philosophy
Healing begins with honesty: Something needs to change. We won’t promise quick fixes. But we will walk with you as you:
- Reconnect with your truth.
- Learn to trust yourself again.
- Create relationships rooted in mutual respect.
- Finally, feel safe in your own body and mind.
This is a collaborative healing space. We don’t lead from above; we walk beside you.
